*is hurt*

[sethgray]

God, the internet needs to come up with a better way of getting your feelings across. Once I got into this big fight with my friend over what was essentially a misunderstanding, and it appears that something similar is happening with one of my online friends.

I'm just kinda dazed and hurt right now. I probably shouldn't say anything more than that. Hell, I probably shouldn't say this much, but I gotta get it off my chest.

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[zapkilikan.livejournal.com]

*hugs* I know exactly how you feel. That's happened to me too many times to count.

[jupiterrhode.livejournal.com]

It's ridiculous how torn up I am about it. Like, physical chest pains type.

I mean, god, I've known this person for like two weeks.

[zapkilikan.livejournal.com]

Sensitivity will be the death of us, I think.

[jupiterrhode.livejournal.com]

*sighs* You're probably right. That's what I get for having all this female compassion. *sniff*

I just couldn't be a straight guy, oh no. That would be too easy.

But seriously, I think what bothers me the most is that this person thinks I would actually say stuff like that, you know? Like I said, we haven't known each other for that long, but I would have thought I would have come across better than I apparently have.

[zapkilikan.livejournal.com]

Personally, I have this issue with having the bluntness of a straight guy, the habit of wording things in horrible ways, and the sensitivity of a girl, so when I trip and say something I don't mean, it probably hurts me more than the other person. *le sigh*

Aah, yes, that's happened to me before. I hope you'll be able to knock some sense into them. *huggles*

[jupiterrhode.livejournal.com]

I know, I always feel horrible when I hurt somebody's feelings.

And I don't want to knock some sense into them, it sounds like they had their feelings legitimately hurt. Hurt enough to delete my posts, so. I've sent off a message, I just hope they get it and understand it was just a lack of communicating what I really meant.

I was almost on the verge of tears for a second there, and I don't cry.

I have not known this person long enough for this to be happening. You wouldn't think I would have enough invested in this relationship for it hurt this badly, but what can you do?

Apparently I'm just a wuss, which, it's not like we didn't know that already.

[zapkilikan.livejournal.com]

Well, I meant more that I hoped you could succeed in explaining to them you didn't mean whatever it was that you said that they took in such a wrong way... Good luck.

No, not a wuss. Just concerned about the feelings of other people.

[jupiterrhode.livejournal.com]

Well I just got a reply and it looks like everything will be fine, so. Thanks for talking me off the emotional ledge, I guess.

*shakes head*

God, I think I've embarrassed myself enough for one night. I'm off to bed.

[zapkilikan.livejournal.com]

Any time. I'm glad things are looking up.

Good night!